" Can't you see?
some people are just not worth your time. They were people you trust because you thought they were good. But some people they just change over time- to people whom you no longer know. To people who destroys your inner life bit by bit. Why are you still surrounding yourselves with such people. Can't you see they are no longer the same person any more? You say because you love them, that maybe people aren't that bad after all. But look at what they did to you. They caused so much conflict within yourself, so much negativity.

I don't understand, understand why are you trying to please people who you know they won't stay in your life in time to come.
Surround yourself with people who brings joy into your life. Your heart just knows that they will be there with you through thick and thin. Surround around them, appreciate them, be with people like that.
As for those that only brings you down- remove them from your life. Shut them out because they are not going to stick with you,anyway. You say you love them, but maybe you loved them before they have changed. Before and after, there's a difference."